I have ened the last serious relationship for about two years. For these days, I felt a little lonely. But also, sometime, staying alone can give me some unexpected pleasure. I can eat what I want and do what I want to do with my friends. But at midnight, a sense of loneliness would strike me. Now, I have a boyfriend, I just know him for one month and today, I want to share the ways to find a boyfriend for girls and give you some good advice from my real story.
The first tip is the way I found my boyfriend- using a BBW dating app. I know some people may say girls are better not to use such a curvy dating app. Because in our impression, dating apps are more used for hookups. Of course, we can see some apps for marriage, but you can also imagine we may feel deep pressure in a dating hookup app for marriage as the online matchmaker may disturb you everyday. I knew my boyfriend in a social app which was introduced by an older coworker.
She was going to get married with her boyfriend who was known in this dating app so she recommended to me. But actutally, I was not good at chatting with strangers especially I didn’t know what to say if I couldn’t have a face to face chat with some people. So for the first time, I just saw the moments of other people and hope I could find someone near me. Then, I found some people in the same city because there was a location based function. And I clicked the city name. Then, many boys came to chat with me. I didn’t use my real pictures because I was a little worried. In general, most boys were gentle and nice. But there were also two men who came straight to the point that he wanted to have a one night hookup with me.
I was so scared becaue I didn’t want to have hookups. I just want to find someone who can listen to me carefully and if I was lucky, I may find a boyfriend. And he camed. I still remembered the date- 10th,Sep. One boys came to chat with me. I knew he was in the same city as me and he told me he could run with me(I was in diet at that time). He told me he havd reduce over 20 pounds because of running at night and I may be safer if I ran with them. Fine, he was not a bad man and I checked his information in his account, I knew what he said was true. So I agreed. I let him wait me in a park with many people for security and we met. I had to say he had a good looking and a big smile. I felt he was relaible. And he just ran with me and talked to me. After running for about one month, he said he liked me. I should say I was attracted by his smile and nice actions. So, we became lovers.
This is my love story and hope it will give you some advice.