Don’t pretend if you are not feeling comfortable in a threesome
Pretending orgasm is very common in monogamous sexual fet life. As much as we know it isn’t the right choice, but still, many people would do that. Fake orgasm is much more common in threesomes, especially for people who never had threesomes before. First threesome can be not as comfortable and pleasurable as you think it would be. Actually, in many cases, people don’t feel a slight bit of turned-on, but only awkwardness and uncomfortable. This is the truth, not as they claimed that how hot and exciting it is. The reason why people fake it is mainly that they don’t want to be the buzz-kill. They think everyone else is having a good time and they don’t want to be the one that kill it. Actually, if you are not feeling comfortable with it, maybe the other persons feel the same way. They are just thinking the same thing as you do. They are also pretending to have a good time. Being honest can never be wrong. Therefore, the next time when you are not having fun in a couple dating, just tell them the truth. You can either switch positions or find another way to do it better.
I was in the shoe once with my husband. It was also our first threesome. We planned for it for weeks. Finally, we found a girl in a tinder for swingers app. She was very adorable and had a really nice figure. My husband and I were both into her very much. After negotiation, we invited her into our house. I cooked an amazing dinner for us. After dinner, we put on a bottle of wine. We agreed that we won’t drink too much, because we learned that too much alcohol would spoil the fun and pleasure. So we had one glass each. After that, everyone was getting braved up a little. We started to fool around with each other. Soon, we were all naked.
My husband started to kiss me and her. I was feeling fine then, but when my husband was kissing her, she made such a big and weird noise. She might think it was a hot noise, but I didn’t think so. I was less aroused every time I heard that noise. However, I thought my husband was enjoying that noise she made. He was really into it. He was also groaning like he used to do with me. So I thought I was the only one who had this strange feeling. I pretended to enjoy it. I was groaning too. Her voice was so loud that completely covered that of mine and my husband’s.
After everyone finished, she left the house. I told my husband that I was not quite satisfied with our first threesome, because I was quite absent by her voice. My husband told me he felt the same way. It was so funny. Neither of us had fun out of it, but both of us pretend we did. We should have say it out in the beginning.