As an old user in dating app for two years, I think I have a high chance to ask my female partners to come out. As now people's ideas are more and more open, so more and more girls are using the type of hook up apps. As a boy, the reason why I use this app is to find some girls to chat and eat with which can kill time. Of course, I can't resist being able to have a one night stand with girls . But I found that more and more men around me said it was too difficult to ask a girls in hookup apps out. After I understood their experiences, I got two reasons on boys.
My colleague told me that he was also using similar hookup dating app. He had been chatting with two girls for two months. Every time he asked the girl out, the girl said no. I asked a few female friends if they would agree to go out with the person they like? The answer is yes. If a girl has a crush on a boy, she will definitely promise to go out and play together, and some girl even use different ways to meet the boy. But if girls don't like you, no matter how many times you ask, the answer is No.The purpose of our chat is definitely to attract girls and get their favor. But I find that many men don't understand how to chat.
The first type is a man who is very arrogant and thinks he is excellent. My colleague should belong to this category. He had a chat with a girl who told others she liked peaches in her moment. And My coworker just wanted to show that he was knowledgeable so when he chatted with the girl, he asked if she liked peaches. The girl said yes. Then he began to tell girls how peaches grow and what natural conditions were needed, what is the flowering and fruiting period, and which city has the best peach to eat. He thought that in this way, the girl felt that he was caring about himself, and at the same time, he could show his erudition. On the contrary, the girl kept silence and offline. He told me that he didn't know what he had done wrong, and I couldn't laugh. Boys, remeber, if a girl says she likes peach/apple, she just wants you can buy one for her. Showing your knowledge is totally useless.
The second type is a man who is so direct to show he likes hookups. We all know that we using hookup app for fun. Some boys will tell a girls he wants to sleep with her in the first message. At this time, please don't be too straightforward. On the one hand, you will be thought as a jerk. On the other hand, you may be reported to the team and you may be deleted from this chatting app. We know we seek hookups, but sometime, using a more respectful way is more accepetable.
If you are this man, please change it.